Not have a routine!! Set a goal week 2....

Ok so i am back!! One of my last posts was about having a blogging routine which at the time I thought was a great thing to do, it would keep me structured and I would have a plan. Since then I have been thinking alot........I managed to stay with this routine for 3 days. It then came to keeping up my routine and I got bored. It wasn't that the routine wasn't fantastic and completely inspired (he he he ) it was that I now had pressure on me. Pressure to keep up with what I had to do, pressure to do it right. I had all these ideas that I wanted to write about but it didn't fit with what I was "supposed" to be doing. So I didn't do anything. I didn't do my scheduled blog or the next one. Then I felt silly because I hadn't blogged for a couple of days so I hid. (it helped that I have been genuinely busy but I was still hiding).

I have been thinking since I started hiding why I was doing it. What it was that made me not want to do something I had so much fun doing. Then it hit me.......it's the same reason why I have become the size I am, it's the same reason why I don't stick with anything. I HATE being made to do something. I know it is me who is making me do it but I hate being told what to do. So...............I know it is Monday and I am meant to set my goals on Sunday (I think this is one part of the routine I want to keep) but I am going to make a goal.

During this week I need to find a way to exercise without having to schedule it in. I need to be spontaneous but still keep up with a plan. That is my challenge.

Oh and by the way with my goal of using my cream I did it every night for the week of the challenge. I pushed through, there were some nights I was so tired and couldn't be bothered but I pushed through and put that cream on. However since then i have gone back to my old ways so my secondary goal is to keep putting on the cream.

Have a Blogging routine!

I have decided after looking at Blogs that I need a blogging routine. I am thinking something like......

Sunday: SET GOALS: Set weeks Goals. Talk about how fat i am. Talk about how cute i will look on my cruise. Talk about how much that won't happen since i just went to the movies and ate a hole bag of Skittles then came home and drank half a bottle of wine while i talked about said movie with my girlfriend

Monday: Freedom To make....i will show a sewing project or a baking project (i still haven't shown that b'day cake) or something that people will say ......."YES LETS DO THAT!!!!!!"

Tuesday:  Tuesday i have no children at home so i have time to blog. So what i might do is look.......look and see what takes my fancy. Look and Blog about someones post. Something that i think is awesome. I will link to a post i love. If you have any suggestions on a blog that i might like or something that you want to share let me know . There may be someone doing something great and it needs coverage/help. Let me know!!! I will take a look and see what i like!!!!

Wednesday: Please tell me what i could do!!!!!

Thursday: Freedom to Review.... I will review something. Whether it has been a book i have read, A movie i love or am intrigued about such as said movie i went to see tonight...... The black swan.......I have 2 days to process it before i let you know what i think!!!!

Friday: Freedom to be crazy!!! Friday could be anything!!! Lets just keep Fridays random. I could post any old thing!!!! I'm a wild women!!! You never know what crazy thing I could come out with!!!!! Also let me know your crazy stories.......If there is something you want to post, something you want to get off your chest but don't feel like you can write on your blog. Let me write your crazy story (only i will know who it is). Just email me (if someone can tell me how to out an email link on my blog)!!!! 

And 

Saturday: I have decided to join in with

A great idea where you say what you love or are grateful for!!!

So that just leaves Wednesday! Any suggestions????? I need help!!!!

Tell me anything. Maybe i should organize something????

Set Goals!!!

So I have just put down a deposit on a south pacific cruise!!! I am so excited!!! I have never been on a cruise before so myself and 3 of my girlfriends are going for 7 nights to Noumea!!! We are leaving the kids and husbands behind to sail across the ocean!!! Yippee

The only problem is I have a couple of things to do before then!!!!
1) Save the rest of the money!!!!!
2) Look Hot in a swim suit!! Ok maybe not hot but atleast a little better then I do!!!

So here it is I am going to reveal something so that everyone can help me!!!

My Weight is in triple figures!!!! Not by much (actually only just) but i need to do something and this is the perfect reason. So i have decided to use you guys to keep me honest!!!

Here Is my plan........
I have a gym membership and plan to go at least 4 times a week.
I am going to try and eat a little better then I do. I don't eat really bad but i need to cut down on my carbs (pasta is a love!!!)

Now that is what I am going to start with ........ any other suggestions would be great!!

So every Sunday I am going to post my progress. If I have to write it I have to do it.
This is were I need your help........If I don't post remind me.....Make me.......Hound me!!!!

So before next Sunday I am going to work out were I am at the moment (my scales are broken at the moment......The ferals tipped too much water on them) I will think about a realistic goal and I will think of other ways to achieve it.

So if anyone has any good ideas let me know!!! Also if anyone else has a goal comment about it......we can work together!!!

Volunteer!!

So i just went down the street to Vinnies to see about volunteering some of my time and i found it really sad.
The people down there seem lovely but at the sight of a new volunteer there was nearly a (friendly) war over where i would be working ie. sorting, serving etc. I found this upsetting because it is sad that there are not enough people willing to volunteer there time. I must admit i only thought about doing it so i would qualify for the childcare rebate but i am really excited to contribute in some way. All i will be doing is a morning a fortnight but they were so happy to see someone wanting to help.

So here is my challenge to you.......just think about the people who have less then you do and the good work that some organisations do.......and if you have time see what YOU can do.